Drama
So this really has nothing to do with motorcycles, but maybe a little. I gotta vent. Someone I thought I admired has shown her true colors. She constantly has her ass up on a pedastal and is so insecure she needs to let everyone know for sympathy.
Yes, I am judging. I have to protect my own feelings, something that has not been respected. I try not to put myself in this position, reaching out, but that's my nature. Maybe I take too many people at face value.
Why do people do this? They create their own make believe world where they are so self righteous and self centered. I'm all for believing in ones self but there's a fine line between that and being selfish.
Never again. I'm sticking with my hubby, my bike and my animals.
C'est la vie.
Yes, I am judging. I have to protect my own feelings, something that has not been respected. I try not to put myself in this position, reaching out, but that's my nature. Maybe I take too many people at face value.
Why do people do this? They create their own make believe world where they are so self righteous and self centered. I'm all for believing in ones self but there's a fine line between that and being selfish.
Never again. I'm sticking with my hubby, my bike and my animals.
C'est la vie.
8 Comments:
At May 9, 2008 at 5:03 PM , "Joker" said...
Don't let it get you down Mimi! People can really suck sometimes, but that's their fault, not yours.
I used to work with this guy, and this one day he was all pissed off six ways to Sunday. When I asked him what was the matter, he said:
"Johnny, everybody in this whole place is a fuckin' asshole, except for you and me. And sometimes... I'm not so sure about you. I damn near fell out of my chair laughing, because he was just about right.
Trust me, the folks out there who are all about themselves are just like you said: insecure. The private hell that they have to live in as a price for that insecurity makes them more to be pitied than laughed at. Be done with her and move on.
Besides, if you have a Harley, who the hell needs her anyway???
At May 10, 2008 at 9:31 AM , Dean "D-Day" said...
Maybe you do take too many people at face value. Maybe that's the lesson to be learned here. God allows us to experience the low points of life in order to teach us lessons we could not learn in any other way. The way we learn those lessons is not to deny the feelings but to find the meanings underlying them. You can't retreat to own little world of your bike and animals out of fear of being hurt. If you do this, you miss out on all of the really great people that are out there. Life's journey is like walking through a rose garden; it's beauty is to enjoy and experience but you're bound to run into a few pricks along the way. Be done with her and move on.
At May 10, 2008 at 4:03 PM , Mimi said...
I admire your feedback. Thanks guys and thanks for listening to me vent! Life goes on and this will pass. Friends will come and go and its something I must deal with. I've already gotten over her ass. And, there's a whole lotta world out there waiting for me to cruise through.
xo
At May 12, 2008 at 3:59 PM , Kathleen Jennette said...
Yep, it happens and it sucks! I say stay comfy in knowing you have your head together. My thing is to just suck it up and let it roll off the shoulders, or ride it out on the road. No one can touch me on the road... its just me and the ride. If I can't ride, then I have a nice little martini and watch a good old movie. No one can touch me there either:) Smile... it will be over soon and now you know better. Hugzzzz to ya!
On another note: you in Santa Maria?
At May 12, 2008 at 8:42 PM , Mimi said...
Hey KT,
Yeah, I'm pretty sure I'm going up for Sat. only. It's a good 3-4 hour ride, but I really need it!
You?
At May 12, 2008 at 9:15 PM , Kathleen Jennette said...
Yep, Ima day tripper to for the Hollister gig. I am meeting a couple of friends in Santa Cruz then riding over there. Let's keep in touch. I would really love to meet up there!
At May 15, 2008 at 12:26 AM , Ronman said...
Miss Mimi,
I love to say fornicate em and feed em fish heads........at least this is the nice way to say it.
Ronman
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